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Roundup: Tantra - Ins and Outs
Last Updated (Saturday, 12 July 2008 07:37) Monday, 09 June 2008 08:58
What is Tantra and is it something anyone can learn?
Tantra is the hot word in sex articles these days, but contrary to the buzz, it turns out there's much more to Tantra than just sex. Tantrik Aghorinathji of About.com explains that "Tantra has been one of the most neglected branches of Indian spiritual studies" and further writes that "the word 'Tantra' is derived from the combination of two words 'tattva' and 'mantra'. 'Tattva' means the science of cosmic principles, while 'mantra' refers to the science of mystic sound and vibrations."
Then what does Tantra have to do with sex? Petra Zebroff of Libida.com explains it this way, "the sexual benefits of practicing some form of Tantra seems to be mind-boggling; from developing the ability to be multiply orgasmic (yes, men too); to the ecstatic energetic orgasms that last way longer than most of our measly 10 second experiences. Let alone the potential benefits of developing a true understanding of your own sexuality as well as an amazing bond with your partner." That sounds good, but keep in mind that these sexual benefits may not be achieved overnight — meditation, breathing, and other exploration techniques develop and flourish over time.
To start learning more about Tantra, please consult these references:
- Answers.com — for definition and encyclopedia entries for basic overview
- About.com, "What is Tantra?" by Tantrik Aghorinathji — historical and religious perspective
- About.com, "Health and Intimacy Benefits of Practicing Tantra Yoga and Tantric Sex" by Chandi Devi — for details on the benefits of Tantra for enhancing sexuality
- AskMen.com "Tantric Sex" by David Strovny, discussion of Tantra for sexuality and gives some positions to try
- Shaped soft furniture from Libida.com that can make some of the Tantra positions easier to manage (it's not obvious, but if you scroll to the bottom of the page, you'll see more selections)
Roundup: Phthalates in Sex Toys
Last Updated (Sunday, 22 June 2008 21:57) Friday, 06 June 2008 15:42
Sex Toy Dangers - a look at some research
It's been a while since phthalates (FAY-lates) were in the news headlines, but to keep you aware of the possible dangers, here's a quick roundup of information with links to more in-depth stories and some retailers that sell safe sex toys.
What are phthalates? They're a family of chemicals, derived from phthalic acid, and used to soften hard plastics to make them more flexible. They're what give sex toys their enticing bendy, flexible, flesh-like quality.
Research has warned that they should be considered dangerous to infants, but there's not enough evidence yet to say for certain if the level of phthalates in sex toys is dangerous for the average duration of use. The good news about all of the publicity is that many sex toy makers and sellers are working hard to help inform you, the consumer, and provide safer alternatives.
You can find lots more information on phthalates from one of these sex toy retailers or news outlets:
- Sex toys: Libida.com - Phthalates, Flexible But Dangerous
- Sex toys: Babeland.com - Sex Toys and Phthalates
- News: MSNBC - When sex toys turn green - for health, that is
- News: About.com - Phthalates in Sex Toys
- News: Grist, Environmental News and Commentary - Naughty by Nature, Ever thought about the toxins in your sex toys?
- Search on Yahoo! or Google for more news and retailers

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